Seminars & Workshops 

  The following topics are the currently established educational presentations. 

Each can be presented as a lecture, seminar, or workshop depending on the topic and the group attending.

If you desire another presentation please let us know and we may have an educated person to offer that topic.

They are perfect to enhance BDSM conventions, fairs, events, balls, group meetings, or other BDSM gatherings. 

Each is designed to be presented individually,  for a couple, a small group of  5~20, or for a large group of 20~300 

The follow is a brief narrative of the current presentations offered. 

Energy Sex– adults over 21 only *private consultations for couples or individuals
Learn how to use your own energies to enhance sexual pleasures. An open mind to learning will find this seminar could revolutionize your sex life forever. Imagine giving someone an orgasm without touching. Learn how to connect your mind with your body for extended pleasures.

M2M Meditation to Masturbation – adults over 21 only *private consultations for couples only
Available for groups of biological women, groups of biological men, and transgender mixed groups. This is a hands-on class where you will learn how to meditate to incorporate meditation into your masturbation. Many of us already understand the concept of how in tune we may be with a fantasy during this intimate self-moment. With meditation practices self-enjoyment can be lead to a new level.

Sexual Communication without words– adults over 21 only *private consultations for couples or individuals
Our bodies communicate more than most realize; sending signals visually, by odor, by changing the way our sweat or intimate fluids taste, by movement, by breath, and by energy. Learn how to see, smell, and taste what you are missing.

Sex and Sound– adults over 21 only *private consultations for couples or individuals
We all understand that sound is a powerful force but it is not what you hear but the vibrations of the sound, the energy of the sound that cause responses. Explore how sounds affect the body by experiencing a native drum, a singing bowl, words, grunts, the ringing of bells and other sounds. Get a basic understanding of charkas to see why certain sounds feel better in certain parts of the body.

BDSM energy– adults over 21 only *private consultations for couples or individuals
Those involved in BDSM will find this an excellent addition to their knowledge. An exploration of the power and energy exchange on the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual levels

Sadistic Energy for the masochists– adults over 21 only *private personal  and couple consultations
The combination of the two energies – the giving and the receiving -  is explained on an energetic level to increase understanding for both players. See how the mind, the body, and the emotions connect thru this play of pain and pleasure.

BDSM Spirituality– adults over 21 only
An interesting beginning for anyone beginning the path of BDSM. This class discusses how the mental, emotional, and physical bodies can be brought to a spiritual level through BDSM.

Transformations   *private consultations for  individuals
Merge your femininity and masculinity into the person that you are. To be balanced we must be both but what shows on the exterior is your expression of who you are to the world. Learn how to talk, walk, and be the gender that you wish to express. Classes are designed around the bio gender of the group to learn opposite gender traits and mannerisms such as ways to hold your hands, sit, and general movements. Learn to even laugh in the gender you express to the world or learn how to be you in your gender expressions. This is not a make up class but based on the physical body transformations and the spirit of the person being happily balanced as the gender expression.

The Beast With In - ages 21 and up **private consultations for couples or individuals
Unique understanding of the primal part of you that you may have hidden and locked up within yourself. In society we strive to conform and suppress the animalistic nature that we are as human animals. In this workshop you will have meridians and chakras opened and balanced to give your inner self the opportunity to come forth in a safe and control environment. Those of us with knowledge of our  Beast within know it likes to come out and play. Your Beast being brought out and to the surface is the first step in merging those powers back into yourself. This is an extreme experience.

Herbal Knowledge for BDSM Play - ages 21 and up*private consultations for couples or individuals
There are many natural foods and herbs that are terrific in BDSM play from assisting the body to heal faster to figging (ginger play). This workshop includes preparation and use of ginger for figging as well as the recopies for the bottom's bath. 

Dragon Tails
Mistress Kay loves the dragon tail and offers this show of use for those who have not had the pleasure to use or feel the dragon tail, or just don't seem to get the hang of it, or think they must be missing something. Several dragon tails will be presented and discussed as well as experienced and demonstrated. Fetish Flair will provide discount coupons for savings on purchasing dragon tails.

.*Private consultations are offered as well as these topics being presented in a group format. If presenting at a location such as a BDSM convention then private consultations will be offered as an additional service available for the convention attendees. 

       RATES  AND ADDITIONAL INFORMATION           

Mistress Kay, known as Mz Kay, and in the spiritual lecture community is also known by  Her spiritual names "KayAhRa" and "Holding Rainbow Warrior Woman" has developed several  classes, workshops, seminars, and lectures. The presentations noted will be given directly by Mz Kay unless other arrangements are made for slave terri  to accompany or provide the presentation. MzKay and slave terri are approved by the Spiritual Network, BDSM Sanctuary, and House of Sanctuary to give some of the presentations. 

Teaching since 1982, these specific spiritual and BDSM classes have developed naturally.  Numerous years allowed Mz Kay to offer these kind of private classes daily at the Spiritual Network location and then (and now) as a seminar/workshop designed for specific groups and clubs.

For ease of reading the term presentation shall reflect a lecture, seminar, workshop, or presentation. Rate is based on presentation topic, location and number of people in the group but will start at $200.00. If travel is involved (for any location out of St. Louis, MO)  you would provide all expenses including: automotive/shuttle travel, 4-5 star accommodations,  food allowance,  and first class air fare for the Presenter. In some cases a companion may be necessary, if so expenses for this person shall also be provided.    

Often Mistress Kay offers vending as Fetish Flair and if vending is possible at the same location then special arrangements may be made bartering vending opportunities for part of the fees associated with the presentation. Each and every presentation shall be designed specifically for your situation and the rates will be based off the specifics of the circumstance.

*Private consultations are offered as well as these topics being presented in a group format. If presenting at a location such as a BDSM convention then private consultations will be offered as an additional service available for the convention attendees.  If you are located in St. Louis, Mo and would like a private consultation or any of the subjects noted or to establish training in any of these areas then please contact us.

If you are interested in booking any presentation for your group, event, organization, convention, retreat, lodge, or even as a group of friends getting together then contact sanctuary@bdsmsanctuary.com  or contact Mistress Kay at 314-852-1369