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This means that the Person you are seeing will provide a BDSM fantasy
setting and experience. Some may think of Her as an entertainer or
performer. A Pro-Domina may be a 24/7 lifestyle Mistress or may only be
an entertainer. Research and frank questions will let you know if the
person is right for you. Exactly what a Pro-Domme can and can't do
legally is governed by the local municipality, the state, and the government.
This will vary, so be sure to speak freely about what experience you are
looking for. Because the laws can be vague I suggest that you go to a
real professional who has been inspected by local authorities and that
operates within the legal parameters. This is suggested because many
subjects are married or involved with someone who would not
understand if there was an arrest. If the person is legal you have
vastly reduced that possibility. Additionally, you should be concerned
with safety and health. An experienced person who has had Hepatitis
vaccinations and uses hospital grade cleaners is always going to be your
best bet. Many sessions will involve some sort body fluids: sweat, spit,
and possibly blood. Some personal items should never be shared -
so consider purchasing any personal items for a session.
And no matter how much care a Pro-Domme takes there is always a
chance for bruising, sprains, muscle strain, nicks, and other accidents. If you
absolutely cannot be marked then your play may be limited. The
Pro-Domme will not know your medical history and how your body will
react to different toys. Some people bruise very easily. Accidents can happen.
In the United States, if you go to a legal Pro-Domina do not expect a
release ejaculation. Most men, after a heavy BDSM session, will go home
and use the memory for self-gratification. A Pro-Domme is NOT a prostitute. A Pro-Domme
is NOT an escort. A subject does NOT pay for services to be rendered but
subjects are allowed and expected to offer tributes to the Pro-Domme.
Many times the Pro-Domme will have the minimum amount of tributes
accepted listed on Her web site. Do not expect Her to have long phone
conversations with you. If you are interested in that, many have 900
phone numbers/services. Most will have a web site gallery, so don't ask
for more pictures.
Always be honest, communicate, and be respectful!

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