Session Rules

• Arrive on time - neither early nor late.

• No application of aftershave/cologne is desired.
  Be clean, showered, and teeth brushed.

• Absolute honesty, respect, and mutual discretion is mandatory.

• I am a Goddess. As such you must answer all questions with respect by saying 'yes', 'no', 'please', and 'thank you' (no slang) with proper title stated (Mistress, Goddess, Ma'am, My Lady).  Answer quickly and clearly. Do not mutter.

• In submitting the session application you agree to absolute confidentiality and other terms and conditions. I must accept you from the info provided in the session application.. 

• In the first session there will be limitations - some things you have to work for. I will not indulge in a first session; enemas, dildo training, needles, cutting, electric, fire, additional people present, or any water sports in the first sessions.  These are personal things that can happen after I get to know you better and know that you deserve special play.

• I will collar you before you are allowed into daDungeon. The collar will stay in place until taken off by Mistress Kay indicating the session is over. Until the collar is removed you are Mine and your eyes will remain to the floor unless otherwise directed. The manners you will have will be exemplary.  Of course if W/we are Role playing this may not be the case.

• A  "slow" word and a "safe" word  is established in your first session.  A "slow" word is used to indicate to Me that you reaching the limits of what you can take. Unless W/we agree differently the slow word that will be used is 'rose'. If you use this word I will slow down, ease up, or do something different but the session will continue.  The "safe" word that W/we will use is 'tree'. If you say the 'safe' word it means for Me to stop and end the session, regardless of the remaining time, you are finished and forfeit any additional time. If you are gagged then you will have no slow word however you may snap your fingers to indicate to stop the session the same as using the 'safe' word.

• Never attempt to touch Mistress Kay.  If you touch  your session will immediately end. Never attempt to touch any other people/subs/slaves/Dommes that may be participating. 

• Never speak unless spoken to. If you use foul language or misbehave your session will immediately end and you will leave.

• I am into BDSM. I do not offer sex but something better. Do not ask Me to undress nor ask for nudity. I will not give it and you will leave.   I will stimulate your emotions, mind, and senses.  I shall use you as My toy and for My pleasure but I will not be using you for sex. What I offer is far above and beyond the mere orgasm. BDSM is far beyond sex and Mistress Kay does not include sex in any session.  Do not attempt to solicit sex, that is illegal and you will be dismissed.

• Role playing is always fun and can enhance our time together but understand I never play the role of a Mistress for I AM A MISTRESS.

• NO illegal activity is ever allowed in the presence of Mistress Kay or in DaDungeon.  These things are not allowed in any manner in DaDungeon, in e-mail, stories, magazines, books, photographs, in any form of media nor conversation. Although I am into many aspects of BDSM, I am not into scat, bestiality, or pedophilia. 

• Obey all My rules - always!