Session Rules

• Arrive on time - neither early nor late
  (you will forfeit your non-refundable deposit if later than ten minutes)

• No application of aftershave/cologne is desired.
  Be clean, showered, and teeth brushed.

• Absolute honesty, respect, and mutual discretion is mandatory.

• I am a Goddess. As such you must answer all questions with respect by saying 'yes', 'no', 'please', and 'thank you' (no slang) with proper title stated (Mistress, Goddess, Ma'am, My Lady).  Answer quickly and clearly. Do not mutter.

• If this be the first session you shall have made a dungeon rental deposit prior to Me contacting you with a date/time. This deposit is only needed the first time. After that I should trust you not to break a session date. If you fail to attend your session you will gladly and quickly offer a gift to appease Me.

• If you are new you will  read and sign an affirmation and present your driver's license when signing a session agreement. If you will not sign My agreement or do not have your driver's license you will forfeit your deposit and leave.  No exceptions. If you do not trust Me enough to verify your identity/age and sign the agreement then do not even bother Me. Trust is a major factor in BDSM and you must trust Me. I will be allowing you into My private dungeon, My home so trust and discretion is a concern. I will send you a copy of this prior to your arrival.

• In the first session there will be limitations - some things you have to work for. I will not indulge in a first session; enemas, dildo training, needles, cutting, electric, fire, additional people present, or any water sports in the first sessions.  These are personal things that can happen after I get to know you better and know that you deserve special play.

• I will collar you before you are allowed into daDungeon. The collar will stay in place until taken off by Mistress Kay indicating the session is over. Until the collar is removed you are Mine and your eyes will remain to the floor unless otherwise directed. The manners you will have will be exemplary.  Of course if W/we are Role playing this may not be the case.

• A  "slow" word and a "safe" word  is established in your first session.  A "slow" word is used to indicate to Me that you reaching the limits of what you can take. Unless W/we agree differently the slow word that will be used is 'rose'. If you use this word I will slow down, ease up, or do something different but the session will continue.  The "safe" word that W/we will use is 'tree'. If you say the 'safe' word it means for Me to stop and end the session, regardless of the remaining time, you are finished and forfeit any additional time. If you are gagged then you will have no slow word however you may snap your fingers to indicate to stop the session the same as using the 'safe' word.

• Never attempt to touch Mistress Kay.  If you touch  your session will immediately end - without refund. Also never attempt to touch any other people/subs/slaves/Dommes that may be participating unless Mistress Kay tells you to touch them.

• Never speak unless spoken to. If you use foul language or misbehave your session will immediately end - without refund.

• I am into BDSM. I do not offer sex but something better. Do not ask Me to undress or you will leave and forfeit your tribute and deposit. I will stimulate your emotions, mind, senses, and your body to degrees you have previously not known.  But I will not be stimulating your penis or even touching it.  I shall use you as My toy and for My pleasure but I will not be using you for sexual gratification. What I offer is far above and beyond the mere orgasm. BDSM is far beyond sex and Mistress Kay does not include sex in any session.  Do not attempt to solicit sex in any manner or you will be dismissed.

• Role playing is always fun and can enhance our time together but understand I never play the role of a Mistress for I AM A MISTRESS.

• When you contact Me by phone you may not touch yourself in a sexual manner.

• Although I am into many aspects of BDSM I am not into scat, bestiality, or pedophilia. NO illegal activity is ever allowed in the presence of Mistress Kay or in DaDungeon.  These things are not allowed in any manner in DaDungeon, in e-mail, stories, magazines, books, photographs, in any form of media nor conversation.

• Obey all My rules - always!