Mistress Kay -Gynarchic and BDSM lifestyle Mistress

Mistress Kay is a Godmother Mistress
of the Black Orchid Gynarchic Club as shown by the Coat Of Arms. Mistress Kay's BOGC Coat of Arms represents Her unique BDSM Spiritual Beliefs. The long chain representing that there are links from all that W/we are and all that W/we do. The enhanced crown reflects that She is a Supreme Queen of BDSM Spirituality who had the responsibility to educate and train. The black orchid at the bottom shows Her dedication to what the black orchid symbolizes. The two black dragons are there since dragons represent wisdom, the keepers of knowledge and secrets, and hidden powers.

I am also a registered Lady slaver of the OWK #1248. Subjects have told Me I was recommended by the OWK as a 'Sadist' to visit in the USA, Midwest area. OWK comments, "OWK does not officially recommend any Mistress outside of their establishment." Also the OWK stated that "the Best World Mistress is paid advertisement." So since I am not paying for an ad, don't expect to see Me listed there. In fact, I don't pay to advertise anywhere.

Yes, this is a lot of info on Me but if you are considering becoming Mine then you need to know who and what I am about. I will drill you on your past experiences and seek insights to who My sub/slaves/subjects are so this is the info you can have about Me. An understanding is necessary to build trust. Trust is needed before any session can happen.

I demand and offer discretion. I demand honesty from everyone. I am real and do not tolerate plastic, fake people or those into any kind of games. I don't tolerate it in BDSM and not in vanilla life either. I feel My time is very important and I don't like wasting it. I go for what I want and take care not to step on any toes unless they are My slaves, subs, or subjects. Info on My pets

I should tell you that I am not a therapist or psychologist of any sort; merely someone who understand the intricacies of the art; who is intelligent enough to have researched the clinical aspects, who has experienced the reality, and who has made Her slaves divulge their reasoning. I have been involved in BDSM (formally) since 1979 and years before that even, so I usually know what I am talking about.

I find dominating a woman much more of a challenge and being bi-sexual - I love the chance to break a woman. I accept male, female, couples, and transgender subjects. I love the female form and find that a woman can take much more pleasure (and pain) than most men, so women are very much enjoyed. Also women tend to understand the multiple levels of BDSM whereas most men tend to remain stuck in the physicality of BDSM. I love the deep, rich, full, relationship that I can develop with a female slave, guess that is why I own one. I also enjoy sub couples as I can have them do a host of wicked things between themselves. Having another Dom and their sub in My dungeon or a sub and their mate also leads to great times. Heck - I have fun with all of it - I admit it!

I loved meeting "Madison" in person and spent a lot of time with her when she was in St. Louis years ago. A wonderful lady and porn star - I just couldn't resist a chance to spank her.

But alas, My favorite toy is terri, My slave girl for seven years. Expect Me to have a party every time she is in the U.S. terri is My #1 and all potential slaves will have training done thru her also.

If you seek to bring a small token of appreciation you should know that I don't care for fresh cut flowers. If you want to bring flowers then take the time to purchase Me a live, in bloom, orchid plant. I do not like candy or chocolates. I do not like fine jewelry either. I am not materialistic so a fix for My truck or new accessories for it would be smart. I also work in fetish fashions so cash before any clothing or shoes since I get major discounts. Of course toys for daDungeon are always accepted which I can get at very reasonable prices.

Date of Birth May 7 - Taurus

Height 5'6" barefoot

Shoe Size 8-9 depends on shoe

Eyes Smokey Blue

Dress size 20 Jan 2006

Smokes Capri 120 non menthol
Camel UltraLight 100s

Collects - MONEY Masks, knives, swords
dragons, & gargoyles

Rarely drinks Loves good tequila

BDSM Toys wanted Symbian & toys on wish list

After a session care & information
tells you how I feel and think about those who serve Me