I accept  female, male, couples, and transgender subjects.

I am active in the BDSM Community and Lifestyle - I am REAL

I am a very experienced,  safe and a legal Domina in St. Louis

I am a Godmother Mistress of the Black Orchid Gynarchic Club

I am the Queen  Mother of The Black Orchid Matriarch Society

I am a registered Lady Slaver of the Other World Kingdom OWK #1248

I have an alpha slave and slave(s)/submissive(s) in My House of Sanctuary

BDSM has nothing to do with sex. With a subject I never have nor will I ever mix sex with BDSM 

BDSM has much more to do with emotional and mental issues,  the physical form is highly regarded  especially with BDSM practices where the physicality of pain requires the human form.  When you physically desire  your Mistress, She can use this desire to make the experience much more pleasurable (or painful). Tease and denial can be a part of play. When you know more about Her you can please Her more easily - and pleasing Me is what it is all about. I am a full time real life Mistress - I always have been and always will be. I may look different over the years or even day to day - but it is always ME. 
 

Mistress Kay is the Queen Matriarch 
of the Black Orchid Gynarchic Society

Mistress Kay is the Queen Mother Matriarch http://www.matriarchsociety.com

Photography by Mistress Kay & professional photos by Master Missouri
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