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Are you a slave?

The word ‘slave’ is very misunderstood. If you asked a ‘vanilla’ person what a ‘slave’ is, you would probably get some remark of slavery in the US of Africans. For this reason there is some stigmatism now assigned to the word. Many think slavery is one of the most terrible things possible but others understand that slavery is one of the most wondrous things that can be experienced. How you identify the word will of course be up to you, the reader. I will assume that the reader is either one trying to identify if indeed they are a slave or a Domme who is evaluating a submissive for possible slave training.

Personally, I do not think a slave can be made. A person can learn how to act like a slave but I think either you were born as a slave to serve or not. A Mistress is a Mother and can give birth to a slave. She is the one who nurtures, teaches, and disciplines. But not all submissives are true slaves and can never be a true slave. If you are within the BDSM lifestyle then you have an understanding of what a slave is. But even in the BDSM communities there are vast differences in opinions of what a slave is and how a slave should act. If you have a slave heart, then you know that slavery is where you belong. If you have not yet read about BDSM Spirituality, you should. It may give you even further insight to yourself and slavery.

So this is the question you face. Are you a slave? 

A submissive or slave must experience many things before they can come to the true understanding of their nature. This sometimes-long path can be depressing and frustrating, to say the least. One must find reality instead of the fantasies in order to begin the search towards the truth.

A submissive can be very happy playing the role of a submissive and even acting as a slave. But if you are playing a role, 

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A slave heart is resourceful, intelligent, creative, and learns to become an actor/actress. This is a condition forced upon them since society could never understand how a human would want to be ruled. There is part of the difference. A slave heart yearns to be a slave and not a human. A slave will learn from the world how to hide the slavery they feel. Instead the slave shall appear to all others as a very strong, determined, smart person who could do anything they set their mind to. Yes, indeed this is the characteristic of a slave heart. For a slave will be very determined to find the Owner and then to do whatever Owner desires.

A slave must be a person of virtue for they will and can not have any secrets from Owner. 

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Are you a slave? If I were to treat a slave like a human I would be neglecting My responsibility to that slave. The slave would feel alone and unloved if I treated them as human. However; if I treat a human like a slave they would not respond like a slave and be acting and it would be abusive or a kink desire. A human and a slave simply do not feel the same. That is why no matter what I do with one I own I never am mistreating them and never abusing them.

In My opinion, a slave is better than a human And a Mistress, a Queen, or a Goddess – is better than a slave, of course. But a slave is better than just a mere human. A human is only human but an Owner and a slave have a destiny to reach and to fill. I can not be human. I am an Owner. It is not a choice but a fact. As a slave is a slave – it just is. But this is not anything I can tell you – it is something that you have to know.

The reason you are reading this is because you want to see what I think or you think you might be a slave. I will not tell you one way or another if you are a slave in this writing. This reading may confirm your thoughts on the matter but only you and your Owner know if you are a slave. condensed version - text removed - please order the full document

When reading My description of what a 'slave heart' is, you might think I am 'over the top' or a little extreme in My descriptions. This may be the case or it may not be. I know that My slave/sub(s) have reviewed this to be amazed that I actually understood what they felt and thought. (silly creatures) So when you read consider that it is possible to actually fit all the things I list or just most - you may have to alter the vocabulary a little as I am making an expression of spirit and W/we all have different spiritual/religious concepts.

So I pose the question again - Are you a slave - and what I am asking is do you have the heart, the soul, the mind, and the emotion of a slave? Read My writing on BDSM Spirituality to see if you have the spirit of a slave.  If you can not answer if you have a slave heart or not then you should take the time read further for a better self understanding of what a slave heart is in reality. 

A slave heart (soul) is: (over 40 defining characteristics, thought patterns, and believes define a slave heart/slave soul.

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Are you a slave?
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