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After Care

Physical, mental, and emotional feelings after a session may have you feeling  a little out of place. you have experienced immense pleasure and different types of pain with Me. I allowed you to experience fear and emotions that you are not used to feeling. Because you have experienced the high of being Mine, you might feel low or down after leaving Me. After a session you may experience what some call 'sub low', 'sub down', or even an odd mini state of depression that is temporary.

During a session you may have an endorphin rush. After an endorphin rush your body may feel hungry or tired.  you might have feelings of being alone or a yearning to know My collar again. Accept that these are appropriate ways to feel about your longing to be Mine again. The first session had moments of uncertainty and fear that you now understand but now you will feel a different fear - the fear of knowing that I can indeed take you to your limits. you feel a rush at knowing I am so powerful and that I will allow you to return. If I did not tell you that you are accepted to return to Me, then why would you be at this page?

I support those that are Mine as they read and experience a 'low' after leaving Me. Again, this is natural so do not worry if it takes you a few hours or even a couple of days to get back on your vanilla track. Feel free to e-mail Me after any session to discuss your feelings and the new desires you have as well as the different understanding of your limits. Communication is important and I demand that you are honest with Me and a line of communication is always open. I am here as your Mistress when you need Me. If  you need to, you may call. If you are Mine then I want to take care of you. I love to play with My toys but I do not want to break them.

Physically: Check to be sure you have no marks or bruising that you need to hide. I am very careful how I play with My toys that need to not be marked but accidents can happen in play. So review the body since some marks may take a couple hours to show or even a day or two. If I played hard you may have bruises. In a couple of hours after play time if the area is still hot feeling to the touch use ice to remove the heat and slight bruise swelling. A bag of frozen peas should always be kept in your freezer to use like an ice pack. If the skin has been broken in any way be sure to keep it clean. I will also give you more specific instructions if needed.

Are you a subject, a submissive, in training, or My slave

It is important that you understand the vocabulary and the differences. I know the first session may have limited O/our play but now the doors shall open to many more joys (and pains) than what you have known before. W/we can explore adding in a bitch of Mine or another male sub/slave to the session. As I know you better there may be times that others can come play too. Or interesting role playing games could be added. And of course the better I know you the closer I can take you to your limits as I show you wonderful new BDSM pleasures and pains.

How I view those that serve Me has nothing to do with being a Pro-Domme or a lifestyle Mistress as I am both; the two are never separate - I am always who I am. When a person first comes to Me, I call them My subjects. W/we have little knowledge of each other in the beginning but it is the beginning where trust and honor develops.  I shall now help you to understand so much more in your new life under Me.    I demand that My subjects, My submissives, My sub/slaves in training collars of Mine, and even My slaves offer tributes or services. Gifts are a natural thing for you to want to give.  I am a Goddess who deserves all that you can bestow upon Me. In offering a tribute you are thanking Me for taking time to allow you to serve me.  you show gratitude that I am willing to train you to be a better sub/slave. you will find that I make you happy and your reward is to make Me even happier with your tributes. Besides, if something is free, W/we do not put as much of a value on it. So your tribute helps you understand how lucky you are that I have accepted you. your tribute also shows your caring for Me so that I do not need to worry about the mundane,  and can focus My thoughts on you and time on what pleases Me. Some subjects as they become a submissive shall offer a monthly tribute regardless of how much I may see them in a month. I may allow some to perform services such as house repair, yard work, toy making, car repairs and such manual labors to show favor. 

After the first session you are called My subject. I do not own you when you are not here. I shall allow My subjects free will when they are not in My presence. But I know you will miss Me,  so you have permission to e-mail Me, but no more than twice a week.   Don't get greedy - remember I am your Mistress, not your girlfriend, nor lover so remain respectful and in your place. 

After serving as My subject a few times, I may find that you are worthy of being My submissive.  I will discuss this with you if/when it becomes the case.

Want another FemDomme to be present, desire another Mistress to take you while I watch to be sure My toy is not broken? 
Can you handle two Mistresses at once? 

How long can you wait till you see Me again?          I know it will not be long!

 

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